步骤9
别因为遇到了反对意见就想要逃避，而应运用你所有的资源就地和反对者战斗。
never run away from disagreeable circumstances.fight them,with all your resources,right where you stand and without a moment's delay.
但这并不是说要对那些向你说“不”的人挥动拳头，而是 说不要接受那些反对意见，而要尽一切努力改变反对者的心意，或者你应该反躬自省，看看你有什么做得不对的地方并加 以改进，有的时候逆境反而是一种检验的机会，它可提供使自 己更进步的方法。
this doesn't mean taking a swing at the fellow who tells you no.it does mean not accepting that refusal and bringing every faculty you have to bear on changing that person's mind. or you may have to take a hard look at yourself,find the error you made, and resolve then and there to correct it. sometimes adverse circumstances are testing devices,providing means by which you may be promoted from a given task to a greater on.
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